This is funny. I fell behind in a one-week Commenting Bootcamp, but I had already done everything asked of me in Assignments 3-5 before I started the bootcamp.
Regardless, it was my goal to work on the assignments as promised. That way, I could discover even more blogs and link my fine readers to some posts.
For Assignment 3, I visited Pawful living🐾🐾doggiebloggie’s blog and commented on a post called “The Disagreement Talkophobia.” In this post, she(?) — I’ll correct that if I’m wrong — shared some posts she left comments on and left some advice for proper disagreement.
I agreed with the list, especially the part about being respectful. In my agreement, I talked about how there is so much disrespect online and offline by people who argue, even over trivial things.
It’s true, though. Sports and politics in particular will bring the worst out of some people. So does any type of fandom, especially online.
“We like this game/show/movie/pairing/person. Why don’t you?”
“Oh, he doesn’t like it? BURN HIM AT THE STAKE!”
And then when one group is called out for their BS, they want to deny they do anything wrong and deflect blame.
This is why one time, I reflected on why people might just hate something or someone because of that person or thing’s fans. Originally, I thought that was a pretty weak argument, but now…
On the other hand, I have had some nice discussions with people I thoroughly disagreed with. I respect people who can keep their emotions in check when there are disagreements. And it’s better to see it reciprocated.
Oh, what did I ask Pawful living🐾🐾doggiebloggie? Basically, if she has any arguments online and whether those arguments were more intense than those IRL.
How about you?
” I have had some nice discussions with people I thoroughly disagreed with. I respect people who can keep their emotions in check when there are disagreements. And it’s better to see it reciprocated.”
That indeed is the right approach in life. Great. Let us follow truthfully.
ASK QUESTIONS- fun, serious, respected, regarded, bemoaned, despised…………doesn’t matter.
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Wow, that was quick!
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I have also enjoyed similar discussions, especially if the person on the other side can make a valid point that may have me questioning my view on the subject!
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That’s kinda rare, bit that has happened to me sometimes.
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Quickness has its charm!
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Thank you for mentioning me in your post and for the discussion we have had was also nice 🙂
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You have sound advice here on how we can disagree with others – respectfully knowing that we may not always agree. we may disagree on one issue and agree on another. Thanks for sharing this.
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